梵翎雅轩

《爱的真谛》                                                 编修者：  梵翎   To My Friends Who Are…………SINGLE 给我单身的朋友们~~ Love is like a Butterfly.  The more you chase it, the more it excludes you.  爱，就像一只蝴蝶。您越要追到它，它却越是把您排除在外。 If you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it.   如果就让它自由的飞舞，它反而会在您不留神时向您靠近。 Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love’s only special when you give it.  爱能使人快乐，却也常伤人。但，只有您真心付出，一切才变得珍贵。 To someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.  所以，只要您认为那人值得您去付出，就花点时间去选择最好的他 / 她吧。                                                                               To My Friends Who Are…………NOT SO SINGLE 给我非单身的朋友们~~ Love isn’t about becoming somebody else’s perfect person.   爱，不是让自己成为他 /她想要的“完美情人”。 It’s about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be. 而是寻找一位可以从中协助你变得更优秀 的伴侣。                               To My Friends Who Are…………PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE 给我玩世不恭的朋友们~~ Never say “I love you” if you don’t care. 如果您根本不在乎他/她，不要说轻易地说：“我爱你”。 Never talk about feelings if they aren’t there. 如果他们不在的时候，不要讨论自己对他们的感受。 Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. 不要进入他/她的生命，如果您将摧毁他/她的心。 Never look into the eye when all you do or say is lie.   您若志在说谎，不要看着对方的眼睛。 The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl， is to let her fall in love when he doesn’t intend to catch her fall and it works both ways…     最残忍的事莫过于，男人让女人爱上了他，他却不过是在逢场作戏。反之，若是女人如此轻佻也一样。。。。。。                                                      To My Friends Who Are…………MARRIED 给我已婚的朋友们~~ Love is not about “it’s your fault”, but why not saying “I’m sorry”?  不要老是说，“这是你的错 ” ；何不说说：“对不起”? Not “where are you”, but “I’m right here”. 不要老是问：“你去哪里了 ” ；何不说说：“我就在这儿等着你”。 Not “how could you”, but “I understand”.   不要老是问：“你怎么可以这样？”；何不说说：“我了解你的出发点”。 Not “I wish you were……”, but “I’m thankful you are”。 也不要老是说：“我希望你是……”；何不说说：“我感恩你是这样地……”。   To My Friends Who Are…………ENGAGED 给我那些已订婚的朋友们~~ The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other. 要真正衡量“包容心”，不是光看彼此在一起几年了，而是要看彼此相互敬爱的程度。                                                                                    To My Friends Who Are…………HEARTBROKEN 给我心碎的朋友们~~ Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.  情伤心碎的时日和受伤害的深度，完全取决于你自己。 The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them. 心碎过后最大的挑战，是学习与面对您从中汲取的教训，而不仅仅是如何从伤痛中爬起。                                                                                           To My Friends Who Are…………NAIVE 给我所有天真的朋友们~~ How to be in love: Fall    要如何恋爱？–就 “爱” 吧！ But don’t stumble, be consistent but not too persistent； share and never be unfair； understand and try not to demand； 可是，千万别欲言又止, 要互相协调，甭固执；要分享，别持有双重标准；要多体谅，别只强求； and get hurt but never keep the pain.  以及，受伤后不要再记恨。                                                                                  To My Friends Who Are…………POSSESSIVE 给我积极的朋友们~~ It’s breaks your heart when you see the one you love happy with someone else , 当你看到你所爱的他 / 她和其他人在一起很快樂时，你深感心碎， But it’s more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you. 但，当你知道你所爱的他 / 她，其实和你在一起时是不快乐的，那会令你更深感刺痛！                                      To My Friends Who Are………….AFRAID TO CONFESS 给我害怕去坦承的朋友们~~ Love hurts when you break up with someone.  当你选择和他/ 她分手时，您感觉受伤。  It’s hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. 当他 /她向您提出分手时，您更感伤痛。 But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.   但，伤害得您最深的，还是你所爱的他/她完全无法感受您的伤痛。                                To My Friends Who Are…………STILL HOLDING ON 给我那些还在等待的朋友们~~ A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn’t worth it. 人生最伤心的事，是您和他/她爱情长跑了多年，最终的结局是不但不如您所预期的，还让您感觉不值。 If he isn’t worth it now, he’s not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. .Then, let go….. 如果他/ 她现在已清楚让您觉得您不值得为他/ 她那样地付出，那么即使是一年，甚至是十年后，您都不会觉得是值得您付出的！那么，倒不如就这样放手吧。。。                                        TO ALL MY FRIENDS……. 给我所有的朋友们~~ From bottom of my heart, I wish you can meet a man/women whose love is honest, strong ,mature, winever-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish. 我衷心地祝福你们，都可以爱着一个诚实、健康、成熟、忠心、有冲劲、有安全感、积极、值得付出和心胸宽厚的他/ 她。